This has been an ongoing problem in our house. Sebastian constantly attacks me whenever mom tries to spend any time with me at all. If she pets me, I get attacked. If she tries to hold me, I get attacked. If she plays with me, I get attacked. Mom has tried Feliway and has talked to the vet. That vet basically brushed her off and said his aggression was her fault. Mom feels that it is something more, and deeper. Maybe more closely related to separation anxiety, since he will chew electrical cords if mom is gone for long periods of time.
Mom was reading where different herbal essences could possibly help with the anxiety/jealousy. We were wondering if anyone else has tried this, and if so, did it help?