This seemed like the only sub forum that relates to my topic, so here goes.
Basically my mom remarried, so i'm in NJ and my cat is in philidelphia living with my grandmom. I originally lived with my grandmom so i got to pet my cat every day, now since my mom remarried im here in NJ and barely see my cat.
its sad because i cant watch him grow up now. and since hes getting to be a bit old, i wanna spend his midlife with him really bad.
I could drive over there to visit him, but the problem is there's nothing to do in my old neighborhood so i'm extremely bored over there, and it's a 45 minute drive.
Now I know you might be thinking that the fact im not willing to endure the boredness and drive means I don't like my cat enough, when the truth is I love my cat. he was my first best friend.
i don't know what to do, i havent seen my cat in months and since he lives with my grandmom who hardly plays with him i'm guessing he's used to sleeping out the boredom by now(I moved here to NJ from Philly 3 years ago)
and no, i am not able to take him in here for a few reasons:
1: We got dogs here
2: I don't trust my step brothers with responsbility of my cat. I always have a fear they might kill him, abuse him, or let him run outside(either through carelessness or on purpose) even though they really havent showed signs of being animal abuses. i still dont trust anyone
3: getting my cat used to a new neighborhood and house is going to be a bit difficult