I have a male fixed cat that used to have 3 other cats to keep him company. Out of the 3 he only got along with 1 of them, they played alot. Now that I'm going through a devorce, she took them all away. Now all he has are 3 large dogs and me. I was thinking about getting him a another kitty to keep him company and to play with. He is 4 years old and loves to play, Is this a good move? If so, What sex would make a better buddy?