My wife brought home a kitten for our kids. We have talked about it as a family numerous times and she knows that I do not want any pets for many valid reasons. Without me knowing, she told our kids that I was going to be very mad and that I would get over it. Now I have a major problem and it's not just the cat. She taught our kids at a young age that only one yes from one of us is OK. I told her that she needs to undo this situation to reestablish a united parenting approach since my authority as a father was seriously compromised. If she doesn't return the kitten, I will unnecessarily become more the bad one for doing it myself but either way I was put in a terrible situation.