Now, I've gotten my female cats spayed in the past, but I've never had a male kitty before. I got Julius neutered yesterday (He was reaching the marking stage, Ruined three pillows and a comforter in one night...While I was in bed!), but I had to have my sister pick him up and she didn't know to ask when to bring him back to get his stitches out. Is it different for neuters? I know it's ten days for a spay, but they didn't tell her to bring him back, so I'm confused. I also have a question about confinement. I got him back a day before they wanted to release him because I'm staying with my sister (Over an hour away, but I wanted him to go to a vet I trust) and it was the only day I could get him. They told me to restrict his movement to a 3X3 crate, but since my bathroom is about 3X3 I have him in there. He hates being alone though, and he cries constantly. Should I put Mieke in there with him, or should I worry about her being too rough? Do I have to just give him tough love? Thanks.