Hi. I have an upstairs apt. Above my moms, she has 3 cats. Two of the cats come up & visit. Over the past few months I've become really close to Buster, he likes to get rubbed, rubs my face against his, puts his scent all over me. I've noticed that the other cat Baby, has not come up to visit for about a week now, and she knows I have catnip! Does Buster own me now? Is it an unspoken agreement?