Ok So I have finally succumbed and am keeping Desert in the bedroom while I'm at work ( I don't think it's rght BUT..)I'm out of options. Desert was attacking the other 2 cats during the day despite being on anti anxiety meds; so bad that 2 times I came home to find chunks taken out of forest's chin.
I decided that 1st I didn't like Desert on the meds as he was acting as if he was depressed all the time. and 2nd I don't know the internal damage that could be being done to hime because of the meds, and since they are ineffective anyways. I just "gave in".
Forest is "free" with Gosmot during the day. However Forest has started to attack Desert bad enough to have Desert (who is a solid 5 lbs heavier than Forest) crys and complains like "Hey stop that HURTS".
The other strange thing that has started to happen is both Forst and Desert have taken to excessive digging prior to using the toilette. They alway s dug before but never like they are now. They could take upto 5 min just digging. Also Forest has started to hold him self untill I get home and only go pee & poo in the litter in my bedroom where Desert is during the day. This even though he has full access to another litterbox during the day.
Yesterday he tried to get in with Desert as he was trying to go. It's not unusual for Desert to wait for me to go to the bathroom BUT it is totally unusual for Forest to.
I really don't know what to do or what is going on. I would appreciate any imput.
Oh and Desert is technically not for adoption right now as I don't want him to be a "disposable christmas" gift.
The only one who is not causing concern right now is my "angel" Gosmot. Infact since Desert has been on the meds it's like he is a kitten again even more so now that Desert is seperated (during my time out at work).
so again any thoughts?? I would really just like to have them all get along with out any wierd behaviour so that I could keep them all and not have to break up my little family due to sibling rivalry.