We're concerned about what to expect because I am very possesive of her already and jealousy and mean spiritedness towards the new baby is a huge concern. I will always be Mom's first born, but I probably won't realize that when the baby's here. Is there any online resources about what we can do as a family to make the transition? Mom would love to cuddle up with both of us, but we realize that may not be a realistic expectation. Thanks!